11/10/2026
Today is International Day of the Girl. I usually post something hopeful on this day, but I’m finding it hard to find those words right now. The world seems so grim in so many ways, especially for women, and for girls looking at what’s ahead – mounting misogyny, threats to our bodily autonomy, seemingly ceaseless cases of assault and domestic violence, the unending scourge of child marriage, the ease and rise of deepfake nudes, a stubbornly persistent gender pay gap …
We deprive the world of so much when we don’t let every human being have the chance to follow their truest dreams, to be their boldest selves. That applies to boys too – the patriarchy is limiting for everyone, regardless of gender.
In 1954, Simone de Beauvoir wrote (in The Mandarins), ‘Girls are weighed down with restrictions, boys with demands – two equally harmful disciplines.’ All these decades later and it feels like too little has changed. It can be depressing to look back and see that so much of the past reverberates to this day – but history also shows us what humans have achieved, and what we could still achieve, if we let everyone be their most creative, authentic selves.
So, I’m going to end on a note of hope after all, because humans are amazing. Yes, we’re all too capable of cruelty and anger, but we can also produce so much wonder and beauty and love, and we must believe that will win out … one day 🙏
📷: Édouard Boubat, 1954