08/21/2026
💅🏼wtf is people pleasing?
so sneaky! Invalidating ourselves, telling stories to justify manipulating how others see us. {‘cause that’s what people pleasing is. We all know that, ya?} Yet, still it sneaks up on us in the most unexpected moments. Let’s drop this and really get on board with WTF IS PEOPLE PLEASING? Who me? Don’t know her.
👑wtf is staying humble?
we are so over it! Taming down the wild, toning down who we are and how we feel for the comfort of others, so *they* can feel just ok? No. we have no idea what that is.
🌼wtf is negative self talk? Cousin of the above. When no one is watching… what are we thinking? are we letting negative perceptions take over? No, we are not 😍 because wtf is even that?
🎀wtf is being too much?
did that negative self talk just sneaked over here again? seems like it. We are never ever too much, by any means of imagination. Or too little. This is all conditioned perceptions of ourselves based on other people’s references. We are letting it fly above our heads. It has nothing to do with us.
🌀wtf is avoiding emotions?
ah, yes… the one and only that for dear life we all got to practice for way too long. There’s so much wisdom living within all the emotions we navigate through constantly. So yes, we are going all in with them, feeling them until we get to be wide-eyed saying ‘wtf is **avoiding** emotions?’ 😳 We don’t don’t know her. We lean in them. Fully! 🥰
🫶🏼 wtf is self-deprecating jokes?
‘oh it’s just to break the tension. Lighten up, no big deal’. yet why on earth did you even come up with that joke? why on earth did you even place yourself in the center of a joke? if all the WTFs above weren’t there in us, ingrained and running the show, this kind of ‘lightness’ wouldn’t even cross our minds. There would be no ground for it. Jokes aren’t just jokes. They reflect our perceptions — of ourselves and the ones around us.
⭐️wtf is not clicking all engagement buttons?
because why on earth would you not thumb a heart, drop a comment, share in your feed, share again in your stories AND save it for later to reference back when you need the reminder? I know…. wtf is even not clicking all engagement buttons?😍