Design Your Life Coaching

Design Your Life Coaching Works with you to design your life by being a trusted listener of your courage for your dreams to come true and the goals you are willing to work towards.

Do you...
* wish you had someone who would just listen and not judge what you think?
* ask yourself questions about why you are not taking the steps necessary to reach your goals?
* wonder how to become successful if you don't even have the energy to move forward?
* get scared that life is just passing you by and in looking back you just don't get where the years have gone? Is it.

..
* time to shift your life from one of upset, concern, confusion and complacency?
* time to take action and create that life you've always known you could live?
* time to increase your productivity and effectiveness?
* time to live a powerful life based in vitality, joyfulness and satisfaction? We will...
* Remind you that you are where to be to move into your dream future
* listen to your thoughts and considerations without judgment
* support you in taking that first 'baby step' towards a life that works for you
* help you look at where you are 'blind to your own blindness'
# time to 'Design Your Life'?

The Universe Provides. I know, it’s a bit odd that I capitalized all three words above. And it’s true! The universe prov...
04/18/2021

The Universe Provides.

I know, it’s a bit odd that I capitalized all three words above. And it’s true! The universe provides. If I allow it to. Over three years ago now I began to state these three words to myself whenever I got concerned about was that was happening in my life. As such, what some may, miracles have happened for me! It only encourages me to look at what’s going well in my life and in the Way is unfolding for me in the moment.

With the COVID-19 pandemic, our lives have been completely altered. Life as we know is transitioning into the next ‘normal.’

I’ve seen it myself just recently, I absolutely love where I live and with so many changes in my life in the last few years I’ve wondered if I should be here. This is coming from someone who points out when someone ‘should’s on’ others and yet who finds herself shoulding on her self. 😜 yes, I admit, I too am human.

Anyway, I live on what I consider to be an incredible piece of property in North County San Diego, California, and I always want to share it with others because it brings me such joy. With people absolutely wanting to travel safely, somehow, somewhere, and after receiving a link to a wonderful website that allows me to share my space with others, I am able to do so. Even without me getting into ‘their space’ or them ‘getting into mine.’ I am offering space on my property for people to bring their self contained RVs or campers and hang out for as long as they like.

Again, the universe provides. Trust it.

Here are some pictures from the most recent visitors to my property. The latest and who just left today were raised and born in Bosnia! Fascinating.

Who’s a question for you:
How is the universe providing for you that you may not be focused on and would just take a shifting of your perspective to see it?



07/23/2020

The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance,
It is the illusion of knowledge.

Stephen Hawking

07/20/2020

“People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.”

George Bernard Shaw
‘Mrs. Warren’s Profession’
Act II, 1893

If we are to look at this is the new creation of what will be normal for as long as it will be normal, what will you cre...
07/17/2020

If we are to look at this is the new creation of what will be normal for as long as it will be normal, what will you create? How will you plus life for this world beyond what we have been putting up with, by complaining about it, for years? You know, the stuff we complain about?

What will be new to create for a world that works?

Always brilliant to read, especially in these disruptive-to-what-we-think are normal times.
05/22/2020

Always brilliant to read, especially in these disruptive-to-what-we-think are normal times.

05/22/2020

This was an answer I posted on an indignation of a statement I had posted of:

This, too, shall pass.

Which had not been met with agreement.

Warning, I am not a fan of who we elected and, he is the president.

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“People say what they say, and others listen how they listen.

And then there is texting, with interjection of the listener's / speaker's emotions, which with no sound or presence will be heard from our own listening in life. Understanding, or maybe indignation, or...

There are no assurances in life. Zip. None. Nunca.

No one promised us that it would be a certain way in life. Evolution will take care of us the way evolution will.

I do not appreciate that our nation elected that man into our revered White House. He is a disruptor or perhaps, the blatant indication of what we have been ignoring. It may be time to wake up.

And he, too, will pass.

To your other point, there is never going back (undo), to what? The world has evolved and if we look from going forward, perhaps we will improve on what we have been complaining for so long about what has not been working. 🤔

This is a new turning point not only in the world, and indeed in our selves. How will we operate from here forward?

03/29/2020

The Invitation
By Oriah Mountain Dreamer

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for,
And if you dare to dream of meeting
Your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
For love, for your dream,
For the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,
If you have been opened by life's betrayals,
Or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain,
Mine or your own,
Without moving
To hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy,
Mine or your own,
If you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
Without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself,
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.
I want to know if you can be faithless and therefore be trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty
Even when it is not pretty every day,
And if you can source your own life
From its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure,
Yours and mine,
And still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"Yes!"

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair,
Weary and bruised to the bone,
And do what needs to be done for the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
In the center of the fire with me
And not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
From the inside
When all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
With yourself,
And if you truly like the company you keep
In the empty moments.

03/29/2020

Our Deepest Fear
By Marianne Williamson

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness
That most frightens us.

We ask ourselves
Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.

Your playing small
Does not serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking
So that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine,
As children do.
We were born to make manifest
The glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us;
It's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine,
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we're liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.

Note: This inspiring poem is taken from Marianne Williamson's book A Return to Love. Though often quoted as part of Nelson Mandela's moving inaugural speech, "Our Deepest Fear" does not appear in the speech.

12/24/2019

BEING AT SERVICE

"My notion about service is that service is actually that kind of relationship in which you have a commitment to the person.

What I mean, in fact, is that for me what service is about is being committed to the other being. To whom the other person is. To the degree that you are, in fact, committed to the other person, you are only as valuable as you can deal with the other person's stuff, their evidence, their manifestation, and that's what service is about.

Service is about knowing who the other person is and being able to tolerate giving space to their garbage. What most people do is to give space to people's quality and deal with their garbage.

Actually, you should do it the other way around.

Deal with who they are and give space to their garbage.

Keep interacting with them as if they were God. And every time you get garbage from them, give space to their garbage and go back and interact with them as if they were God."

-Werner Erhard, 1975

My holidays thoughtsA couple of years ago now my life was thrown into confusion. I had no idea that what was happening t...
12/06/2019

My holidays thoughts

A couple of years ago now my life was thrown into confusion. I had no idea that what was happening to me had happened. I was truly blind to my own blindness and for quite a while I lived from shock and disbelief.

I had to learn and remind myself that I am only down or mistrustful or afraid if I say so.

This year is the first year since that I've stepped out and chosen to live from creating brand new memories based in fun, love and play!

I have known and said that I absolutely love my fellow human beings. I love you and I am not afraid to say so.

I have believed for many years that all people really want to do is to support each other. That's it. We all love each other and it's that we allow ourselves to get beaten down when something happens. It's true! No matter what happens, it's in us to shift the upset to a place where we wish to dwell!

I learn from my everything. Take my dogs. They teach me how to be. South them, there's the temporary confusion and then, the "ruff ruff ruff ruff ruff" when something happens and then, they move on.

Luke this three legged dog. She didn't create a sad story around the fact she lost her leg. She just got back to living!

Look at children who have grown up with disabilities, e.g., blind or deaf or whatever! This is the way life is. There's no drama, unless they have been taught or caught up in stories about it.

Look at the young man who won America's Got Talent last year! Kodi Lee, blind with autism. There was no stopping him!

Yes, we are human and do not know it all. We were not born with manuals.

However, life is what we make it. We experience what we experience and we get to choose to make it a wonderful offer to grow or, get caught up in a trap.

It's our choice.

This year, I'm looking to where I have not explored. I appreciate who I am and what I've experienced, no matter what has happened.

Life is short. I still live it so I'm going to make it be the best!!

Happy Holidays all. May you too continue to grow.

(Ok, I'm a diehard Steelers fan!)

12/04/2019

Driving through the beautiful hills of North County San Diego this morning and seeing the plump and also wispy clouds cresting the hills, hanging on to the tops and not quite coming down to the floor of the valleys, with the rain coming down in steady and fat droplets, I'm reminded that once again I am in a God's country, nature.

I say once again because this is not the only place in the world that is bountiful with nature, and that I have remarked to myself is. I've lived in many places and this is just one of this beautiful Earth's living environments that brings me peace and joy.

I make a special note of this to myself because, I'm remembering that my days of experiencing this Earth are numbered and wonder whether to move on or stay here. Out of choice.

I treasure most my memories of stepping out into the possibilities, and even though I've made mistakes or some things just haven't worked out, my life has been a remarkable journey. I know this may sound a little morbid to some (esp the youth) and I am on the opposite side of my life. So, do I want to stay safe and secure and comfortable and only "survive" until the end? Or do I want to put new challenges in front of me that may include moving to another part of the world?

Such are my thoughts while seeing the incredible vistas of nature's bounty. 🥰

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