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Be More Me Designs The discovery of a jewellery journey. A new-found love for creating sparkles. Following my heart. Aiming to Be More Me.

She is made of all seven who came before her 🤍The cells from the beginnings of life that faded too soon remain in a moth...
15/10/2026

She is made of all seven who came before her 🤍
The cells from the beginnings of life that faded too soon remain in a mother’s blood, following baby loss. It’s called microchimerism.
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Evie now carries a tiny piece of each them. And that is a beautiful thought 🩷
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I am writing this at the end of Baby loss Awareness week, in which I’ve been thinking about the heartbreak that led us here.
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The second photo taken, having cried tears to the lyrics of Shania Twain on the radio - ‘looks like we made it’. In utter amazement that we have, sadness for our losses, and knowing far too well it’s not the same for so many.
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In the first pic, I’ve lit 7 candles for tonight’s wave of light, to remember our little flickers of light that came first.
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Evie may be our new chapter, but they are our story that led us to her, and will never be further than a thought away.
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So much love to you all - who have experienced any form of baby loss, who have supported and carried those you love through it, those still trying, those moving forward in your way, all remembering the ones we didn’t meet.
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🕯️For our 7 flickers of light, that went out 🤍•Wave of Light.•Baby loss awareness week.• 💕
15/10/2026

🕯️For our 7 flickers of light, that went out 🤍
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Wave of Light.
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Baby loss awareness week.
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This has been sat in my drafts all week, but after chatting with my besties today I feel it’s ok to share!•It was ‘World...
25/09/2026

This has been sat in my drafts all week, but after chatting with my besties today I feel it’s ok to share!
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It was ‘World Childless Week’ last week, and it didn’t pass me by - but I questioned whether it’s ok for me to acknowledge it now?
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In previous years it’s been hugely poignant to me, as a week of recognition for those who can’t have children, are trying and struggling, have chosen not to, or have not had the chance to try.
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And opening up about our decade of struggles to start a family has meant I have bonded with many in the same or similar positions; who’ve been through experiences much like ours, or just resonated with feelings I’ve shared.
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But now, incredibly, after fate took a hand, we are blessed with Evie 🩷. She entered our world at a time when we were beginning to face the path to acceptance that it wasn’t going to happen for us, we wouldn’t have children, and we would continue to be grateful for the lives we’ve led together and the joy still to come as the two of us (3 with Jazzy 😻!).
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Now, tbh, I feel I’m carrying a slight weight that feels a bit like guilt. There are friends I’ve grown so close to through not having kids, and/or experiencing loss, and their support has been an anchor over the years. And now it’s like we’ve turned the page without them.
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‘Guilt’ isn’t really the right word, as we’ve been through enough heartache that I don’t want to associate it with finally meeting our little angel. But I also don’t think there is a right word for it.
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Maybe it’s more ‘acknowledgment’ of the unfair hand different people experience. And a sensitive nod to the fact I will always understand it, despite being graced with our miracle. A new life doesn’t erase the life that’s been lived.
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I also know that no one wants or needs a pity party! This isn’t that. Because those I know, who are navigating a life that may be different than they had expected, will live it to the full, see gratitude where others don’t and are f’ing brilliant!
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I may no longer be on the same page, but I hope I can still always be there to lean on because I see you, and I do get it 💜
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💕 12 years of wedded tears and joy!!•This time last year, celebrating you and me in New Orleans, we’d never have believe...
13/09/2026

💕 12 years of wedded tears and joy!!
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This time last year, celebrating you and me in New Orleans, we’d never have believed that we’d be spending our next anniversary, 12 months later, like this 🥹.
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I’ve loved you for 23 years and plan to never stop 😉!
You are my one 🫶🏻💕
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03/09/2026

One whole month with Evie Iris Nimmo… so easy to love 🩷 and her being here will never be taken for granted.
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(Jasmine’s still not so sure 😼!)
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Just want to take a moment to show off these 18ct gold wedding rings I was honoured to design and make for friends, who ...
29/08/2026

Just want to take a moment to show off these 18ct gold wedding rings I was honoured to design and make for friends, who became Mr and Mrs last weekend 💞
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What wasn’t expected was I’d be in hospital, due to pregnancy complications, when I should have been travelling to London to personally deliver the rings, at the start of July. (I’ll save the pregnancy stuff for another post).
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So, Guy and Maya came to collect the rings from Northampton General hospital, and sat in the little ward garden where I spent weeks in the run up to baby Evie’s arrival.
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At such an anxious time, seeing these guys - who became my first visitors - made my day, and their reactions to the rings were so heartwarming. (Scroll to see pics and - warning - a very huge belly in the last one 😉!)
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Guy had previously commissioned me to design and make a bespoke engagement ring for Maya.
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And so they said they couldn’t imagine getting their wedding bands from anyone else 🥰!
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And so Maya’s band needed to be designed to fit neatly around the unique waved shape of her engagement ring.
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While Guy wanted a classic style band, but with its own touch of identity, so we decided on a subtle hammered effect and matte/brushed texture.
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I also hand-stamped their wedding date inside the bands, just like the engagement ring, which has the date they first met stamped inside.
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Both are hallmarked at London Assay Office , which always includes my makers mark and is quality assurance of the 18 ct gold I say it is.
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Thank you so much Guy and Maya for putting your faith in me!! And thank god you were able to get them in time for your big day, thank you for making the effort to come to the Shire and brighten what was quite a difficult time 😉💖!!
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22/08/2026

🌈 It’s the first ‘Rainbow Baby Day’ that has a different meaning.
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I saw multiple full rainbows over the back of our house in the weeks after we found out we were pregnant for an 8th time.
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A little part of me wanted to believe ‘maybe this time’.
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But when all you know is 10 years of loss, it’s so difficult.
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We never expected 2026 to be bringing us our ‘Rainbow baby’, or believed life ever would, but fate intervened, and she’s here.
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It doesn’t erase the heartache that led us here, for the little lives we created and never met.
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My heart will always recognise that pain, and hurts for others who feel it too.
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But now it’s expanding more and more than I ever imagined it could, each day for our girl, who we’ve finally met at the end of our rainbow 🌈🩷
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Evie Iris : a name we chose before realising their meanings - ‘life’ and ‘rainbow’ : you are so cherished by so many sweet girl.
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Two weeks ago our world changed 🌍🥹This is Evie Iris Nimmo 🩷🌈•After 10 years of trying to start a family, and experiencin...
17/08/2026

Two weeks ago our world changed 🌍🥹
This is Evie Iris Nimmo 🩷🌈
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After 10 years of trying to start a family, and experiencing so much heartache and loss, it finally happened.
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We didn’t dare to believe for the whole 36 weeks and 5 days, until she was here, in our arms.
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But on the 3rd August, we were able to stop holding our breaths and we met our daughter for the first time.
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For some, I know this will be very unexpected news! As I’ve kept very quiet on here while we waited with apprehension, anxiety and hope.
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I also truly understand the conflicting feelings it may bring others of you 🤍
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I have so much more to say, but for now, it’s just to share our relief that beautiful Evie defied the odds, and she is here 💕
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11/06/2026

The Lakes; a few more lovely, relaxing days away last week, spent with my Uncle and Aunty in the Lake District where they live 🫶🏻
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Rain, walks, goats, good food, ice cream, lovely accommodation, and the world’s strongest b**r!
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Back to the bench, after a lovely few days away, and back to working on a bespoke wedding ring, which will sit around th...
08/06/2026

Back to the bench, after a lovely few days away, and back to working on a bespoke wedding ring, which will sit around this engagement ring that I had the honour of making last year 💛💍! It’s trickier aligning them than I thought it would be ☺️ but I love reaching the point of a make, when you can see your vision coming to fruition!! 💫
•joben and thank you for your patience and belief as always 🙏🏻
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(And don’t panic, the dodgy brown and greenish colours tainting the gold are all part of the process from heating and soldering 😉!!)
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