04/01/2025
I have so many words, and none at all.
We are living in some exceptionally wild times, and there are many people out there who want to eliminate myself, and people like me. It’s getting increasingly more unsafe to live authentically, as ourselves, and that’s fu***ng terrifying.
I don’t know how to get people to understand that we just want to LIVE.
Things are scary, but let me tell you about my community. These two, along with many other INCREDIBLE humans, have shown me what community truly is. What family truly is.
The way my people have rallied to make me feel held, and cared for, and loved is beyond anything I could have ever dreamed of.
I’m exhausted. But I’m exhausted from a weekend of celebrating trans joy, and trans bodies, and trans fu***ng futures. We met my top surgery fundraising goal (on ), with the help of so many people, and the ridiculously hard work of some of my closest loved ones. It is not lost on me how fortunate I am to have the support and love of the people around me, because TOO many do not.
We WILL keep moving forward. We will continue to love and support one another. We will live our lives as our truest selves, because otherwise? What are we even doing here?
Cis folks, we really hope you’ll stand up and do the work to keep us safe, because we’ve been doing the work forever.
Last thing: I’M HAVING TOP SURGERY THIS WEEK, Y’ALL!!!! 😭😭😭😭
Last last thing: TRANS FAM, I LOVE YOU SO FU***NG MUCH! You are magical, and beautiful, and so so special.