Reiki with Cristina

05/27/2026

05/26/2026

Constantly being criticized is draining. But losing yourself trying to satisfy everyone is even more draining.

Toxic criticism has a way of slowly changing people because after hearing enough judgment, correction, comparison, blame, negativity, or disapproval, many people stop asking themselves what they want and start asking what everyone else expects from them. They become quieter, smaller, more careful, more anxious, and more focused on avoiding criticism than actually living.

The difficult truth is that some people will never stop criticizing because the criticism was never about helping you grow. It was about control, projection, their own pain, their expectations, or their discomfort with your choices, healing, boundaries, confidence, or growth.

You cannot stop toxic criticism by becoming better, quieter, more understanding, more available, or more accommodating because people committed to criticism usually move the target every time you reach it.

The only real way to stop toxic criticism is to stop giving it unlimited access to your heart. Stop explaining yourself to people who have already decided not to understand you. Stop defending every decision. Stop abandoning yourself to keep peace. Stop shrinking to fit inside someone else’s comfort.

Because constantly being criticized is exhausting, but forgetting who you are while trying to avoid criticism is even more painful.

05/21/2026

✨ Calling all single ladies 💗

I want to work with single women because I have some different techniques to help narrow down the swipe left vs swipe right process and hopefully create a shortcut with less pain, less confusion, and less online dating chaos lol. ✨

I’ve honestly always loved playing Cupid 💘😂 and helping people see things differently.

We can look at things like:

💗 Red flags vs fear
💗 Emotionally available or not?
💗 Intuition vs trauma response
💗 Patterns & self-worth
💗 Compatibility / values / direction
💗 Are we choosing from alignment… or loneliness? 👀

Because sometimes the goal is not finding someone faster — it’s finding someone better.

If you’re tired of confusion, mixed signals, ghosting, wrong matches, or repeating the same cycle… message me. ✨💗

Let’s make dating smarter and less painful lol.

✨ This session is about creating more clarity, fewer wrong swipes, less pain, and smarter dating choices — and that can be worth every penny. 💗

05/21/2026

✨ Signs Your Intuition May Be Blocked, Quiet, or Hard to Hear ✨

You overthink everything and cannot hear your own answer
You constantly ask others what to do
You feel disconnected from yourself
You ignore your first feeling and later regret it
Fear sounds louder than inner knowing
You stay in confusion for long periods
You keep repeating the same relationship patterns
You second-guess yourself all the time
You need outside validation before making decisions
You do not trust yourself anymore
You feel numb or disconnected emotionally
You ignore red flags because hope is louder
You feel “pulled” toward things that hurt you
You know something feels off but stay anyway
Your body says no, but your mind says yes
You confuse anxiety with intuition
You are always in survival mode
You struggle to feel joy, peace, or excitement
You stay busy to avoid feeling
You cannot tell what is yours and what belongs to others
You absorb everyone’s emotions
You feel mentally noisy all the time
You abandoned your own needs for too long
Trauma, burnout, grief, stress, heartbreak, or people pleasing became louder than your inner voice

Sometimes intuition is not gone. It is simply buried under fear, pain, exhaustion, overgiving, and noise. 💗✨

05/21/2026

Do you want me to tell you which proverb is for you right now? ✨
Type “me” in the comments 💗💎 Only doing this tonight :) May 20th :)

Here are 50 proverbs / sayings ✨

Actions speak louder than words.
Better late than never.
Don’t count your chickens before they hatch.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
Honesty is the best policy.
Practice makes perfect.
Rome wasn’t built in a day.
The early bird catches the worm.
Two heads are better than one.
Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
Time heals all wounds.
What goes around comes around.
You reap what you sow.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Better safe than sorry.
Don’t judge a book by its cover.
Every rose has its thorn.
Good things come to those who wait.
Knowledge is power.
Necessity is the mother of invention.
No pain, no gain.
The grass is always greener on the other side.
Too many cooks spoil the broth.
When one door closes, another opens.
You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
Still waters run deep.
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
Fortune favors the bold.
A stitch in time saves nine.
All that glitters is not gold.
Birds of a feather flock together.
Curiosity killed the cat.
Easy come, easy go.
Empty vessels make the most noise.
Every dog has its day.
Haste makes waste.
If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.
It takes a village to raise a child.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
Laughter is the best medicine.
Look before you leap.
Money doesn’t grow on trees.
Necessity knows no law.
Old habits die hard.
Out of sight, out of mind.
The pen is mightier than the sword.
There is no smoke without fire.
Too much of anything is good for nothing.
United we stand, divided we fall.
When the going gets tough, the tough get going. ✨